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writes:Recently this boy I know added me on msn and starting speaking to me loads, like everytime I signed on he was there, speaking. Then I went on holiday and he was always messaging me and when I came back same thing again. I told my family and they were just joking the usual: "he fancies you! he loves you!" and I just sort of ignored it. Till an hour or so later, he did ask me out. I sort of panicked and told him I'd think about it. I have never had a boyfriend before and I think I was just shocked at him asking me. Cause he was always talking and joking with me at school. But I said no and I really regret it now, everytime I see him I do even more and I see him everyday. But he now ignores me, I feel really bad! I really regret my choice, what can I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): be his friend, explain why, then ask him out. i did the exact same thing as you a few months ago. by asking him out it shows how much you regret it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): I know how you must feel i was in exactly the same situation. I ghated myself for rejecting him and spent so many nights crying over him. But in the end i just realised hes never going to know how i feel unless i tell him. So thats what i did and now im with him. He's probably ignoring you because hes embarrassed and doesn't know what to say now that its all awkward. But break the ice and, perhaps you should try rebuilding your friendship before jumping straight into expressing our feelings :L Dont worry if its meant to be it'll work out. :)
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reader, RennieGeek  +, writes (28 October 2010):
Talk to him about it, be honest, tell him you were nervous and didn't know what to say so you just said no, but you'd like to say yes now. You'd be surprised. He is ignoring you because he is hurt and feeling rejected.
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