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30-35,
*larkman
writes:OK, I've been in a relationship for the past seven months with out any infidelity towards my girl friend. I'll admit that I am the jealous type when someone hits on my girl and she loves that about me. Ever since yesterday, I ask her about giving oral sex to me and she declined my request. I was fine with it and tried to convince her by asking a rhetorical question. I ask her ''would you want another woman giving my dick sexual pleasure by the tongue, and the next day I would wake up with herpes giving it to her?'' She told me that she wouldn't care as long as I am still with her. I took it personally cause I feel that she isn't in love with me. Then today I ask her again why she wouldn't want to give me oral sex. I was stun when she said, ''just like a guy gives me head, its the same if a woman gives you head. As long as you stay and be with me.'' I told her ass to head home that instant. She ask if I was serious. I let her know how serious was I after slamming the gate door in her face and locking it. To me I feel that she betrayed our love as well as our friendship. Not only that, but she is actually giving the heads up on letting another woman put my heads up in her mouth and letting me get away with it. could she possibly trying to let me get head for some other female just because she committed an act with another man?
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 She was probably being snarky. It's unlikely she meant precisely what she said and it came more out of her being upset at your insistence on oral sex. You may be over-reacting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): I think the problem would be addressed in a more mutually satisfying manner if you two would quit talking about oral sex and start performing it on each other.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (29 October 2010):
 I too think it was a snarky comment she made. Not all girls like giving head and some absolutely refuse to do it. And those girls are usually single. Or she could be one of those girls who had a bad experience with it, thus making her shun the sexual act. It seems as she was tired of you asking her about it, and if it's that big of a deal to you, made a rude comment to go get it else where. There are more important things in life than getting head. So I wouldn't jump to conclusions thinking she's cheating. You're jealousy is getting the best of you on this one. Instead, let her come around and apologize for her comments. And you apologize for pressing the issue of blow jobs. The more you push that subject, the more she's not going to give in. Then you can mend this relationship.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 You need to ask her what she meant by this ask her does she want an open relationship and has she let other guys go down on her? Just because she wont give you a blow job doesnt mean that she doesnt love you some girls arent comfortable doing it and you should respect that but dont go with another girl for this pleasure as she is probably just saying this so you can get off her back and it will only lead to the both of you breaking up. Just ask her straight out if she has cheated on you.
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