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writes:hi, i'm a bit confused on how to put this because it's got my head spinning really. i apollogize in advance if i sound a little stupid.for almost a year, myself and my ex from 2 years ago would occassionally meet up and do 'stuff' together. but 3 months ago, i met someone else and i called off what i was doing with my ex. this led to a massive arguement and and some very angry and obscene text messages from him. recently he's started opening up more and saying that he has always had strong feelings for me and that he wants to try and give it another go with me but wants to take it slowly and see how things progress. the guy that i met and was seeing ended up sleeping with his own ex girlfriend and i decided to stop bothering with him on a romantic basis. it made me start thinking about my own ex and how i felt about him. i don't know if it's love because i'm to young to know what love really is, but i know that i care very deeply for him.a few nights ago we ended up meeting up at his place and it jus seemed to happen that we did oral together. the big difference was that we ended up cuddling up and watching a dvd afterwards and he asked me to stay the night with him. this has never happened before.because of my own fears of being hurt, i had to ask him whether he was being honest with me about his feelings, he said he was but he felt weird when we were doing 'stuff' but not a bad kind of weird :/ n that he more enjoyed just cuddling up with me on his bed :/honestly, this confuses the hell out of me and i don't know what to think about the situation, we have A LOT of history and i could really do with some help on understanding what is going on.
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reader, carra +, writes (28 October 2010):
 My advice is - never reheat a day's old chicken soup. it will taste sour.
There must be a reason why you two broke up and if they are still valid, you should keep with them.
Crossing the sexual line with a partner made you more involved than you should have been and now you can either step up and face the consequences or mellow down.
Good side: you know him, you've been through a lot, you know what he likes and how he does stuff.
Bad side: you switched from being just friends to lovers again. Now he sees you as his girlfriend again. Are you sure you want this?
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