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I'm having trouble concealing my penis!

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Question - (28 October 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2010)
A age 30-35, * writes:

I have a very odd problem. My problem is I am having trouble concealing my penis in my pants(especially shorts). I guess you could say its above average in size, 8 inches long and 6 inches around. The problem is many times it just looks like I have a boner in my pants when I really don't. And when I do get a boner, it goes my belt and into my shirt. I always thought it all was embarrassing. I don't know if its really a problem or not, but Girls what would you think if you saw this situation?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010):

my bf has this problem lol a lot. well like it embarrases him cause hes around your size, so he just wears his shirt untucked and stands where possible, altho wen hes with me seein him do this makes me quite pleased cause its my 'fault' lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010):

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To answer Gabrielle Stoker's question, when I have a boner the head will poke into my shirt, a little past my belly button. Also when its non erect its still 5-6 inches long so it can be difficult to conceal even then. My work pants can be very revealing, so every once in a while I will tuck it under my belt, even when I don't have an erection. If you have any other questions please ask. thanks

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (28 October 2010):

chigirl agony auntIm sorry for you, actually. And Im sincere. I can see how that poses a bit of an embarrassing situation for you. Obviously you don't want people think you walk around with a constant boner!

Th eonly suggestion I have though is to wear clothes that are either tighter/looser. Tighter pants like jeans are still thick enough to cover it up, and at the same time press your penis down. In theory. Looser clothing also needs to be of a thick fabric.

Basically you need to be careful with what you wear. You can't wear thin fabric shorts obviously, they will not leave anything to imagination.

Do you have a problem with getting an erection when you wish you didn't? If thats the case you could try cooling it down by thinking of naked old people. Just as an example. Think of something that is a complete turn off. Or like some other person said, angle your penis down in your pants instead of up?

And yes, you are way above average in size.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (28 October 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntWear looser-fitting clothes...and when you say it comes out of shirt do you mean the head pokes out of your shirt or something? I'm having difficult picturing the situation, actually.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010):

Just buy yourself a jute suspender. or you may even hide your boner in panties...they're tighter.

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A female reader, Natalie:) United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2010):

Natalie:) agony auntAs a girl I wouldn't know how to sort that issue however I can tell you now no girl is going to mind seeing a big penis in a guys trousers or shorts!!!

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A male reader, Nithyanala Indonesia +, writes (28 October 2010):

Nithyanala agony auntI have a similar problem when I get hard but generally keeping it tucked between my legs prevents it from being too obvious...thankfully since I can pass as a girl in most situations I can get away with wearing a skirt and tucking my penis as stated above.

Just try wearing less tight clothes!

That said, when you talk about it going through your belt I do think I should ask why no earth you're keep it pointing upwards!!

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2010):

If have a simliar size manhood.

Best way to "cover it" is to wear loose fitting pants/shorts, or buy the next size up and have them tailored to fit, without making it apprear that you are walking around with a constant erection

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