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I'm no longer attracted and we barely speak. Can we rekindle this relationship?

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Question - (28 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 October 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *fyoudontmind writes:

I had an amazing relationship with this girl that was beautiful.

We hit it off right away, and moved in together a few months after dating.

It seemed perfect at the time, but now its so drab, our entire relationship is dying.

Im not attracted to her anymore, we barely speak, we constantly spend time apart, and even when we do spend time together, its not the same.

Is it possible to rekindle something, or was this infatuation from the start.

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A female reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] United States +, writes (29 October 2010):

[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony auntNext time you should find a girl that you actually have things in common with, and spend more time with. Do not rush with finding someone, it wont be hard to find someone who will have the same characteristics as you, or similarities. So yes, since you're not attracted nor compatible anymore, I'd advise you to leave her. Good luck, xoxo.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (28 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntI think what happened here is you just moved to fast without getting to know each other properly and now you realise that you are not suited together, if you are not attracted to her anymore and the spark is not there then i think it is best that you part your own ways.

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