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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So i have been with this guy since our 7th grade year and i am now a freshman in college. We had our ups and downs like normal relationships. During our 9th grade year he kept breaking up with me and then 3 weeks later we would get back together. That summer we fell head over heals for each other, but when we got back to school it was all different. He started getting into a lot of trouble and he was blaming it all on me! He told me I could no longer where jeans bc he was afraid some guy might try to get with me. That summer we broke up and he found a new girlfriend but then he told me they broke up so we got back together but he was still dating her behind my back. He finally left her and it was me and him again, but then he started getting violent he pushed me and scratched me minor little things and I forgave him always. That summer he started dating a girl that just entered her sophmore in hs and was pregnant!!! He finally left her and alone and I thought it was finally our chance, but I was wrong! This was my sr. year and we were planning marriage and everything he bought me an engagement ring for christmas but two weeks before he broke up with me for another girl! He kept saying he wanted me back but wasnt going to give up on her! They finally split and once again i took him back! It was like a fairy tale until he started talking to the girl that just had her baby!! We got into and he finally left her alone again and we got engaged but then he started beating me really bad!! We finally broke up and are still broke up, but he keeps begging me back,and i found out just today that he was talking to the girl with the baby again!! What do I do bc i want him back and i cant seem to get over him?!?!?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): You have a real jerk on your hands. As long as he can come and go as he pleases, and you are willing to put up with it, he is in control. He gets off on knowing you'll always forgive him and take him back. I would suggest that you never speak to him again.
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