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writes:My girlfriend is on a space break with me for a week. It happened because i dont trust her with other guys and i am always scared that she will cheat on me or dump me for someone else. She flirted with my best friend and he asked her out to take her on a date. Even after i found out she didnt stop talking to him when i told her to; and after bugging her for 2 months, she finally stopped talking to him. I know she loves me but because she tried to cheat on me in the past, its hard for me to trust her. I really want to trust her but i need help. I asked her how i could trust her and she said she cant tell me that? :S
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (28 October 2010):
 being chatted up by your friend is not the same as her trying to cheat. unless there is something you are not telling us?
what happened is your "friend" tried to steal your girlfriend.
if i was going out with someone and they told me who i could and couldn't talk to i would end it as that is very possessive behaviour and frankly not the behaviour of an adult.
anyway your insecurity will make any relationship you have awkward and uncomfortable. you need to work on that or chose to feel like this every time your in a relationship, because thats going to be a barrel of laughs...
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 what do you mean she tried to cheat?
From your letter you appear to be overly insecure .. did you think ASKING rather than telling her not to talk to a certain person might have worked quicker, and if the man in question is your best friend, and he hit on her, he isnt much of a friend is he, maybe you should try TELLING him a thing or two .... nahhh, much easier to place all the blame on the girlfiend isnt it, that way if something does go awry it's not your fault or your best friend's!
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