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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years, last year, he lied to me about texting another girl because I would get "jealous", when I confirmed I wouldn't, he apologized and now tells me when he texts another girl.This morning though, after our two year anniversary, his phone beeped at me, I thought it was a warning his phone was dying and turned it on. I was a little curious as to which friends he contacts the most and how many texts we've sent each other (as my phone doesn't tell me and I know we text like crazy) and saw a girl I didn't know was texting him, and I know she works with him.I looked at a few texts, one said "I guess I shouldn't grab your ass/chest anymore lol!" in response to her boyfriend being in town, I brushed it off as a joke, then noticed an earlier one from him to her saying something along the lines of "Should I come kiss you goodbye?" and felt my heart drop...Now, I know it was super bad of me to check his texts, but I'm just wondering if I should confront him about this, because if he is cheating on me I don't want to stay in a relationship where there is another girl...What should I do?
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?]  +, writes (29 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) I don't get why'd they both even flirt in the first place.. I mean she shouldn't do that to her boyfriend who's out of town, and was wrong of your boyfriend to keep that from you. He should have told you he was texting her to begin with like he saidhe would tell oyu when he texts a girl! I mean come one you have been dating this guy for 2 years, and he is still doing this. The last text you said didn't look like a joke at all.. and I hope you come to your sense and find someone alot better. Break up with him is the best option hun, I'd hate to see you hurt. Good luck, xoxo.
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