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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 2 years went behind my back and met up with his ex. He also had some semi naked photos of her on his computer which I accidently found. We had a row and made up and decided to give it one last go. Thing is, my trust, although improving, is difficult. He's just recently said he's going for coffee with one of his female friends and I feel physically sick [A year!! after the events occured]. Am I allowed to say anything?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Well in fairness he broke your trust by going behind your back and then also by having photos of his ex semi naked this is highly disrespectful to you and off course you are going to have trust issues i hope he understands this.
Ok talk to him about this just tell him you feel insecure with him meeting up with this female because of what he done in the past but dont tell him that he cant meet up with her just say to him that the trust was broke alot and you need his help as much as yours to rebuild it.
Try not to dwell on it though, i cant tell you how to feel but he does have the right to have female friends as you do male.
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