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writes:hello people, I am not a native speaker of English. If I make mistakes, pls forgive me. if you do not have this problem, I don't think you can fully understand what it feels like to have a small penis. My character has unfortunatelly been built based on this bitter fact. Maybe I exaggerate, but all I know for sure is that I can not go out with women just because I don't feel man enough. I'm 30 years old and I had sex just once. before I took my clothes off I'd told her that I had a small penis halfjoking. I tried to feel less embarrassed saying that like a freak. my penis size 4.7 inches(12 cm) by the way. what should I do? do you think I am torturing myself without a reason? do you think I can make women happy in bed?thank you ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Really you can do much better. cuz all guy penis are small at that point. Don't bother yourself and remove negative think about your size.
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 It's enough to make a woman very happy indeed. And you know what? If you've made the woman happy with everything else you do for her outside the bedroom, anything you do in it is a bonus she's bound to enjoy. Learning to be good with your tongue will help too.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 It depends on when and where you are naked. All of us men look ridiculous if we were just standing in the middle of the room naked. Our bodies aren't as beautiful as the female body. Besides, all guy's penises are small at that point. lol
But when you are in bed getting close to a woman, hugging and kissing, the last thing that woman is doing is measuring your penis with her eyes.
Don't put too much thought into this. No worries, friend. You'll be fine. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): Yeah its the motion of the ocean not the size of the boat pal..ur good there..and women love oral and finger action...diversify and thatll help ur confidence too but i wouldnt worry too much about ur size. Thats fine there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): I don't think you should worry about it. One of my ex-boyfriends had a small one as well. I was actually concerned about it, since all the guys I had been with before were larger, but it wasn't a problem. You should research positions that will make it seem larger and stick to those, and avoid ones that make it seem smaller (like missionary). With my ex, I could barely even feel it in missionary position, but for ones in which he was sitting upright and I was on top - it was the PERFECT size.
Also, I'm a small girl so that's why it worked for me. To 5 foot girl, 4.7 is going to feel much different to one that's 6 feet tall.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the comments. so you do not think that when I take my clothes off, at least most of them will not make me feel embarressed? and continue to be with me?
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reader, TimmD +, writes (28 October 2010):
Ever hear the expression "It's not the size but how you use it?".
There are men that have a large penis that are bad at satisfying women because they don't know how to use it properly. On the flip side, there are men that have a smaller penis who satisfy women VERY well.
Don't let it worry you. Confidence is more important and effects your sexual performance more than the actual size of your penis.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Oh geeze, don't worry about it! I think guys are much more obsessed with their penis size than the girls are. Dirtball is right on this one - become magnificent at giving her oral sex, and she won't care in the slightest about your length, not that she will in the first place. But, to help your self esteem, you don't have to worry about regular sex either. Your penis is bigger than a AAA battery.
Also, put the tape measure away! Most of us women don't carry one. 4.7"? You have it down to the decimal! What would happen if we women started measuring our areolae? You guys would be like "Who the hell cares?! We want to suck on them!"
Next time you have sex, your pillow talk shouldn't include your penis size. Instead, practice on kissing and wrapping your strong arms around us! It wouldn't matter if you had a 15' horse penis, if you kiss bad, you won't get your pants off. :P
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reader, Johnny2301 +, writes (28 October 2010):
 I think the average is between 5 and 5.5 inches. Honestly, 4.7 inches is not anything to be concerned about or let yourself down.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 October 2010):
 That's enough to make a woman happy. Really it's only slightly under average. I do think you're torturing yourself without reason.
If you're worried about pleasing a woman, learn how to perform oral sex on her. For many women, this is much better than sex anyway.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Yes, absolutely.
Sex is much different for women, it's not all about penetration. Honestly, women get the most pleasure out of the use of your hands and mouth.
If you learn how to use your hands and tongue, Women aren't really going to care about your package.
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