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writes:Im 15 and ive been dating my bf for 3 months and i have serious trust issues. Every guy ive dated has cheated on me more than once or left me for another girl then came back when he got tired of her. I dont trust my bf and i feel bad about it. I want to trust my bf but i just cant. The only guy i trust is my bff and thats probably because he has never hurt me badly and he is always here for me no matter what. My bf tells me i can trust him but right when i start to something happens and the trust is gone before it was even there! If that makes sense. What do i do? How do i learn how to trust my bf?
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reader, angelalb +, writes (29 October 2010):
Your only 15 and chances are if your boyfriend is 15 too he might not be serious. It is not you its the age. I don't believe guys at that age really want to settle down with one girl. This is from experience. Guys are typically still going through puberty til the age of 20. You have your 20's to be in a serious relationship. Enjoy your teen years with friends. Teens need to mature past the age of 15 before they can deal with a complex relationship. Daniele
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): look honey if you cant trust theres a reason for you not being able to trust. if you dont trust him now i doubt you will ever be able to trust him. you cant learn to trust him its up to you whether or not your relationship can work without trust
good lukc deciding xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): Well...he has asked another girl for nude pics just once i think and he has girl-friends that he jokes around with and the jokes are..well funny to her and him but hurtful to me. some things i do for or to him are not good enough. He has friends over and sometimes they have sex there at his house and i dont know if he is around when this happens or not. His friends want him to go to partys with them where there is drugs and drinking and sluts. I hate those things. but he still wants to drink and if he drinks too much then he might want to try out the sluts. Girls do hit on him and he tells me sometimes.
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reader, Odds +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Usually, guy friends would dislike and distrust your boyfriend by default, especially if you've had a history of choosing bad ones. If your guy friend likes this new boyfriend, odds are good that he's alright.
Still, nothing's perfect, and the only way to actually have a relationship is to risk getting hurt, again and again if necessary. Good luck to you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Well you said there that you trust your friend because he has never hurt you or broke your trust which makes sence but what has your boyfriend done to break your trust? You always says something happens when you are begging to trust him? What are these things that stop you from trusting him?
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