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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend will have been going out for a year as of December 15, 2010. Only thing is, nobody else knows. My parents hate the fact that one day I'm gonna move out. They don't want me dating anyone cause they think it will make me move out sooner. If anyone were to know I had a boyfriend, I'm worried I'll get in a lot of trouble. Even though I'm almost 17. My friends are starting to think I might be lesbian because I'm not interested in seeing other guys, even though I'm totally straight. I tell them otherwise, and they've started making jokes about me needing to come out of the closet. I want to tell them I have a boyfriend, but I'm scared about what my parents will say if they find out. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): Yor friends shouldnt be aking jokes like this straight or not. Its hurtful and real friends wouldnt do this. You dont have to tell your friends anything but i would tell your family. Because the longer you leave it the worse it'll be. And just think how upset theywill be that you have been seeing him for a year alredy with out feeling able to tell them. I advise you to tell them, they may even be able to help you, with things like arguements and other common problems with relationships ;)
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