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anonymous
writes:Well my friend who I am starting to like has asked whether i want sex with her I've said yes an we are both going to next week.Neither of us are virgins and we are quite close.thing is I don't know whether this is the beginning of a fuck buddy a relationship or a one off?please help.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Starts out being about sex and nothing but sex with no feeling attached that's a fuck buddy, no strings attached set up.
Start out getting to know each other, there's feelings involved, go out on proper dates, you win her over with charm and romance, you guys decide you're boyfriend and girlfriend, and a little ways down the road you have sex that's a relationship.
Never confuse the two..
What you have is a fuck buddy, no strings attached, friends with benefits situation.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (29 October 2010):
 The thing is, what kind of relationship do YOU want it to be?
If you want it to become an actual relationship as opposed to a friends-with-benefits - the "benefits" being sex with really very little "frienship", or a one-off is something you need to be clear about in your own mind. If you do want something more, it would be better to hold off on the sex at present and just date and get to know each better and see how well you get on. You also should talk with her about what kind of relationship you want, and see whether its to her liking.
MAYBE she wants to have sex with you as a means of getting even closer - but equally, perhaps she just fancies you as a sex partner, who knows?
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