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female
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30-35,
*exygal7
writes:i really like this guy he is so cute but he is already with someone else!!!its so not fair he's noticed me and everything and he allways teases me and talks to me if its fair to say there relationship is coming apart but the girl is my best friend!!should i tell him i like him even though he is with someone else?i love him so much what should i do cupids?and i really dont want to hurt my best friend xx sexygal7
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 If you were to get with this guy after they've broken up, you would seriously be hurting your best friend, and it would damage your friendship.
I understand that you love this guy, but don't you love your friend as well? If she's one of those friends who you never want to lose, then I would stop talking to her boyfriend and keep your distance, because you're just going to like him more and more, and be tempted to flirt etc, and the desire to be with him will increase. You'll be stuck between a rock and a hard place because you'll want to be with him but you can't do that without hurting your friend.
If you did get with your friend's ex and your friend stopped talking to you, what would happen if your relationship with him comes to an end? You'll have lost both of them, and you'll be left with the guilt that you hurt your best friend for nothing.
The decision lies with you, but I suggest you forget about this guy and keep your distance from him, and don't resent your friend for being the one to get to him first. There'll be other guys in the future who you'll like or fall in love with, but this friend may be a friend for life.
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