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41-50,
*riz
writes: How do i tell him how i feel??i live with my boyfriend...im 8 months pregnant...the thing is that every time im sad i cant tell him why im sad...we have been through a lot of things together....he change when we started living together. he put me aside some times for his family...i took that because i love him....he said so much shit to me and i just stayed quit and never said anything..so i wouldnt make it bigger.....now everything is different i dont know what change him..may be he relize that i wasnt going to take more shit and leave him for good...or the baby were having...now hes always there for me...hes trying to make it up to me..or thats how i see it...the problem now is that i cant tell i how feel..every time im sad or mad...even thought i try to i just cant.... and he gets mad because i dont tell him...anything i just turn around breath so i wount cry for my babies good....but still inside everything i feel... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 October 2010):
You obviously have a barrier up from telling him how you feel as you are scared that he will go off on one and go back to treating you badly but am sorry hun but your relationship is not going to work if there is no communication so you just need to tell him how you are feeling and why you are mad or sad dont be scared that he is going to be angry just be honest with him, if you love him then you should be able to tell him how you feel and not be scared of his reaction so just tell him what is in your head believe me it will make you feel so much better as well.
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