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writes: So me and a friend of mine were planning to experiment sexually and we were planning and talking about it through texts, we were really good friends and just wanted to try it out, well i guess he was careless but his Dad read the messages and thinks I'm gay. We still talk just like friends around school, but we can no longer hang out as normal friends outside of school, because his parents are keeping him away from me. Although I was really looking forward to experimenting with him, I that I messed up our regular friendship by way of his parents, so now we cant experiment or hang out, he wants to try and do it after school sometime...in a bathroom, but i told him absolutely not there;s way to high a risk, and i don't want to try it that bad. What do I do?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Hang in there until you are old enough to move out into your own place. Do well in school and university could be in your future.
When you are older, you can make your own decisions; right now, your parents have a responsibility for your safety and well-being. Having experimental sex in a school bathroom is a pretty decent way of getting a major reputation and a label that will follow you until you are out of that school. I expect it could also lead to expulsion and you'd have to start school somewhere else mid-year. All in all, not a good plan. If he were a bit more mature, he'd realize this.
Stay in school, do well, and pretty soon, you can make all your own decisions. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): I find it really sad, although entirely predictable, that his parents are essentially keeping the two of you apart for fear of him 'becoming' gay just because they think you are.
You're obviously both really close otherwise the two of you wouldn't even be considering this. At this point it might just mean waiting until a better opportunity (to get together) presents itself. You are correct in not doing it at school though. That would be extremely risky.
If you two REALLY want to make it happen... you'll figure out some way. Only the two of you know each others schedules well enough to plan out how/where/when you can meet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): well to be hoonest i think you two are very young and shouldnt do something sexual so soon because you may live to regret and i think you should start to think about ur sexuality because it seems you may be gay you just do not know it yet, and there is totally nothing wrong with being gay if you are good luck for the future
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