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writes:I hope someone can give me some advice, i have a real problem going on in my life right now. me and my ex fiance have not been together for about 5 months since we broke off our 6 year relationship. i moved out here from chicago to los angeles to be next to her and then she decided she could not be with me because due to trust issues that i caused. i agree and I am man enought to accept my issues i never cheated on her but lied about where i was at times and that stuff it was pretty bad, after a year here in Los angeles she broke off our enagement and i have tried to get her back in my life, we talked for many months after our break up but she didnt want to give me hope so we decided not to talk. then we went out to dinner a few weeks later to say our goodbye and get stuff off our chest i personally thought that was the last time i was going to ever hear from her again, i said whatever happens from this dinner happens if we never talk have a great life if you do call me i hope we can work things out. about a day or two later she called me and says she still hesitant and that well see what happens im just stuck in what i should do, i feel like she is not the same person. i feel like she might be stringing me along i just dont know what to do. it hurts a lot to not be with her and talk to her as i did back when we together i just dont know what to do. im so confused, do you believe she wants to work things out or just stringing me along please help any advice would really help
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reader, amyxavier  +, writes (28 October 2010):
i think she is just so scared that you have hidden and lied more than the thing she knows about once the trust is gone it is so hard to get it back she does not want to gethurt again if you love her and want her be patiant if she is worth it you wont mind waiting if not move on and try to forget her she needs ypu to be totally honest from now on because if you tell the tiniest lie she will never trust you again
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