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writes:Right, I'm quite good friends with this guy and girl who were a couple of about 8 months until yesterday.The girl had a crush on me a few years ago but as far as I know, she doesn't anymore.The guy was pouring his heart out to me tonight, and I feel really bad for him; whereas the girl doesn't appear to be sad.Me and her were talking earlier via IM, and we were somewhat flirting, then the guy started pouring his heart out to me, now I feel like and utter...And she spoke of hanging out, which is innocent enough because normally me, her and the guy and friends hang out. But now it's minus the guy.. should I be hanging out with her? We're only friends, but I don't want him getting the wrong end of the stick.Thanks, I hope I make sense.
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reader, jj.  +, writes (19 May 2009):
One thing in life it's good for you to start right now..Put yourself in his shoes..ask yourself how do you like it or better yet would you like your best buddy to get horny and screw your girl...You said something earlier and that was your good friend...what is the defination of good friend..where does it say screw him and his girlfriend. If you were my friend i'd get rid of you, right now. Put yourself in his shoes and feel the pain after you find out your goodfriend screwed your girl. Something to think about and move on down the road, get yourself a girl not your good friends. Ok signed jj.
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reader, arie +, writes (18 May 2009):
 I don't think you should be hanging out with her because an eight month relationship is a long time to be dating and if she is flirting already and doesn't have an ounce of sadness that tells me that she is not serious in relationships. You should wait cuz the guy is hurting right now and you need to be there for him and find another girl to flirt with okay. She aint worth it to me. Good luck and godbless
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