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writes:I need to know what to do next in a potential relationship. (I am in uni btw)It has taken me a while to realise how much she really does like me. We met five months ago and have been meeting semi-regularly or regularly for nearly 4 months. I wouldn't say in my view we have had a "proper date" most of the time just coffee.She clearly enjoyed my company, and I did sort of ask her out for lunch and a walk, though she did not accept (nor did she refuse). Since then though we have been for a walk together, and walk and lunch.She has been to my room in halls of residence once for me to play some music, and then we went for a coffee. Well I had a hot drink she had a cold drink, but it almost looked as though she were stroking/rubbing the bottle as though it were phallic. I never thought much of it really until today, thinking it was just some crazy thought that had popped into my head.She actually then asked if I were free the next day and that is when we had coffee and lunch.Most recently, I had been planning sort of day out, but the weathe forecast was poor and I cancelled before she had given me a decision. Nonetheless we met, and she actually went to the trouble of finding somewhere quiet for us to meet. After that she actually invited me to her place for lunch and cooked for me. It is now exam time so we might not see each other much and I will be going home soon thereafter. I want to do something with her before going home that is more of a proper date, and was contemplating asking her for dinner.Is that appropriate at this stage?My gut tells me she likes me, she makes remarks that hint at it, and some of the things she has done suggest she does. Yet there are one or two things that almost suggest otherwise. What should be the next step? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWoops meant :O rather than :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyup I thought it was silly though some people and websites seem to think otherwise :P
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 May 2009):
Hey again.
You need to get on with this and ask her out.
She was not stroking a bottle phallicly that is just silly.
But just get on and ask her out before she decides that you are not interested and puts you in the friend zone.
If you want her to be your girlfriend then ask her out and kiss her.
Good Luck!! xx
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