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writes:I dont know what to do. I had a guy play with my head and heart for 2 years. He never said he didn't care about me but he never said he did. God I can almost say i love him.Anyway, after 2 years of being "friends with benefits" (i never wanted it, i was naive in the beginning but then fell hard for him) he finally told me he doesn't like me, doesn't want me. This hurts incredibly bad because i cared so much for him and i've told him i cared so much for him but never said anything about it. He was mean about it too. This hurts so bad i just want to die.How can someone be so heartless and hurtful when i cared so much, but i guess that was my mistake. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 May 2009):
Oh sweetie I know this is horrible.
All you can do from this is learn.
You do NOT get into a FWB relationship with a guy you actually like / want more from.
You do not lie down and write welcome across your face and then get upset when people wipe their feet on you.
Yes this guy was horrible and cruel but you let him get into the position to be that horrible and cruel.
I'm not saying this is your fault. We have all done stupid things and it's not our fault.
The plus side is that it is over now and you can move on, get some self confidence and NOT let a guy do this to you again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (18 May 2009):
 thats the thing friends with benefits to guys it's nothing and girls it gets to be a little more and the guy knows that if he doesn't keep you sweet enough you'll not want to give him what he wants...
you're better off without him that's all i can say.
any guy would be lucky enough to have you and you'll find someone who cares about you just as much as you care about them.
but you need to make sure they are good enough to have your care because you don't want to waste it on just anyone.
:)
best of luck hun.
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