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I am anxious about her touching me "there" because of size

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Question - (18 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a problem...

okay im in a very open relationship with my girlfriend and we really like eachothe. everythingis great and we've been going out for a few monts...but lately i've noticed she's been getting a little touchy feeely...i know she's like dat...and i'v e notice try to touch me ""there"' but i shook it off cuz i was kinda nervous...it's not dat i dont want her to..i do i dont mind..it's just that i know she's been with guy whoo were much ""bigger" than me if yu catch my drift....i just dont want he rto be disappointed becuz her guys before me..were more endowed..........i mean its not like we are gonna get in to sexx but i dont mind her touching me there...what should i do??

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A female reader, bananaa Canada +, writes (18 May 2009):

bananaa agony auntAccording to what you said it sounds like your embarrassed. If she really liked you or loved you she wouldn't mind much.

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A male reader, Mr.Insignificant United States +, writes (18 May 2009):

Mr.Insignificant agony auntThis is every guys insecurity...well every guy that is average in size; there are a lot of us! Let her touch you there and enjoy the touch. It wouldn't hurt you either to do some research on how women like to be touched.

Just always be prepared to be safe. If it does lead to sex, you must use a condom. While abstinence is the best approach to avoiding STD's, pregnancy, etc., using a condom is the next best thing that a man can do.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

Hey man I am 15.First of all, SIMMER! If you're worried about being small then count yourself out of the game. Go big or go home. If all she wants is sex, then its not a real relationship. Sit her down where you can get some privacy, where just the two of you can talk. Tell her your worries, if she really likes you then she wount mind, she'll find it cute that you opened up to her. I've had relationships with both guys and girls who kept touching me. I liked it but I wasn't ready for so much.

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