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Am I cursed? Everything bad happens!

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Question - (18 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Can i be cursed? My bad luck never stops. Now I don't even want to try new things, because what ever I try turns out to be a disaster.

One bad thing after an other. Even people around me sort of falling away from me, because they can't help me, or even to keep up with my chaos.\

It goes on now, around 6 years ago. All my children are in big trouble, health, drugs, violent attack on one, husband is impotent, car accident, rear health issues.... and the list goes on...and what ever I try to do to fixing anything, just turns out to be a disaster. Please believe me! It is true, I have bad luck, and I can't control it. What is the possible cause,or sollution?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

You are just another statistic.

That is no good.

Its not about one car accident...

I could handle that, But I can't handle 10.... or more

You got it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

Most of what you describe are things we all go through in life...it's hitting you harder than most, I suppose.

You have to stop believing that you are destined to have bad luck. You might want to seek a professional to help you sought things out. Your brain is on overload. You need an outlet.

I have had my share of problems (quite similar to the ones you list) including the death of my ex. But I always try to look at the positive things that happen too. Sometimes it's difficult, but when I try hard enough, I find a whole bunch of miracles, and things to be grateful for. I'm more of a glass half full kind of person. I have to be! And I always try to find humor to keep me going!

I hope I have helped in some small way. Life gets so complicated and confusing sometimes...

But what are the alternatives??? I am not willing to give up hope for happiness! So, I keep going!

GOOD LUCK!

Britt

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A male reader, garcypher United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2009):

PS. get some viagra for your husband - it works.

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A male reader, garcypher United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2009):

What's happening in your life is not so much to do with luck but circumstances; one of your children is on drugs, this is a problem in society that affects thousands. Nothing to do with luck more to do with choices people make. Violont attack are common now. I have the scars to prove it. This another problem in society that affects many every day. Car accidents can happen to anyone. The roads are congested. And there are many accidents.

You are just another statistic. I think you should get in the right frame of mind before things will improve. You have to tackle each problem methodically and cope like so many do. Things always change for the better. There is a balance to everything. You just got to strengthen up and tackle your problems.

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