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Swingers: Have sex with friends? Or strangers?

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Question - (18 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *EScott1985 writes:

My wife and I are both attracted to each others' friends. Is it a good idea to be having sex with each others' friends if we are swingers...or should we only have sex with strangers?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

The long-standing advice in the swinging community is that swing partners sometimes become very good friends, but friends seldom make good swing partners - and you loose the friendship in the process. Although it seldom happens, the "ideal" situation is to discover a swinging couple among your casual acquaintances.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

well, if you have sex with each others friends, make sure you both are completely alright with it and wont get jealous or use it against each other if you get into a fight.

also, if you have sex with strangers, its a tad bit dangerous considering you don't really know anything about her. you don't know her past, who shes been with, how many people shes been with, etc. also she might have std's so be careful!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

depends on the friendship. Some friends are cool some aren't.... talk to them and see - talk around the subject.

But swinging couples can loose partners etc. to friends...and then loose the friend as well....

Star.x.

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