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My ex told me to date around but I want him back!

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Question - (18 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *sears1989 writes:

Question. My ex just started talking to me again. Its been like 4 or 5 weeks since we broke up. He says he misses me and loves me but he doesn't want me back yet because he can't trust me. I don't know what to do. Should I wait for him to want me back or just try and move on? I find it very hard to move on because he still has my heart and I want him back badly. He said its up in the air wheather we will get back together or not. He told me I should date around. I've been doing that but alls I keep thinking about is him. Help I don't know what to do.

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A female reader, Dsears1989 United States +, writes (21 May 2009):

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Thanks for the advice. Ill give him time. But how much time is to much?

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A female reader, Dsears1989 United States +, writes (21 May 2009):

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Ok now I'm majorly confused. He says he wants me back but just can't right now because of how hurt he is. Then he also said that maybe were meant to be just not right now. Maybe in the future. But when I was with him everything felt right and I just knew he was the one for me but I'm confused because if he's the one then he should be able to take me back and forgive and forget. I don't know what to do I don't want anyone else though he keeps insisting that I date other people and see what happens. But I can't he has my heart and soul. I love him and want him back plz help me.

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A female reader, Dsears1989 United States +, writes (19 May 2009):

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Thanks for the help but now I need more help because apparently his best friend has been looking for him and he has been looking for her. I don't know if they like each other or not but I know they tried to go out before in high school but it didn't work out for some reason and now I guess she's going to be moving down here and she needs a place to stay and he's gonna let her live with him. I don't know what to do. I don't want to give up on him but he might fall for her and she him. What do I do?

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