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writes:ok, last time i asked this i dont think i got enough answers, i need to hear everyones opinion, cuz im really stuck and madley stupidly in loveee me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had sex with this other guy. then me and my boyfriends got back and now hes finished it with me and hes seeing this other girl. but he claims he still cares for me.i dont know what to do, because im so insecure and i really love him with every peice of my heart. i will do anything to get him back.but now hes saying that if i can change, by... giving him more space and not be so controlling that he would meet with me and decide if he wants so be with me again and forget about this other girl. and im reallt thinking about changing so i can be with him. i wouls rather be with him than see him with another girl.Please help me..thanksxxxx
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reader, Tine +, writes (18 May 2009):
 if you love him so much then i would try again at this relationship however if he tells you are too controlling you obviously dont think your doing it so you need to ask him for examples of how you act so controlling so you can work at it. if you genuinely think that you can do it then i'd give it another go but if it doesnt work out this time then i suggest you move on.
By giving him space its also giving you space too so think about that it could work out good for the both of you.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (18 May 2009):
 Do you think you're too controlling? If you do then there's no harm in changing that. But, if you don't believe that, you won't be able to change because you won't think you need to. Does he want to change other things about you? If so, he should realise he can't turn you into someone you're not and you shouldn't let him. I know it hurts now but if he can't love you for who you are then maybe you're better off without him? Good luck x
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