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anonymous
writes:Okay, First i'm sorry if this has already been asked before... But here we go.Well about a year ago, i started dating a guy, that i eventually thought i was in love with. He was kind of a jerk, he took things really fast, as in he tried to make out on the first date, and he was super physical. And ever since i've dated him, i always expect all the guys i date to be like that, and i get majorly confused when they don't. It makes me feel really self conscious like i'm not pretty enough for them to want to do anything.How can i get over this? I'm sick of only liking guys that are very physical.. I'm still a virgin and i'd like to keep it that way, but i don't think i will for long if this goes on.Any help is appreciated!
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reader, Hannan  +, writes (6 June 2009):
Hey i'm a virgin too nd about 20 yrs old nd i intend 2 keep it til my weddin night(i fantasise it a lot).It ain't easy but u can.Avoid al dat physical stuff.I was n a relationship nd i did all dat but u'll b exposed 2 sex sooner or later.U ll find someone u luv soon.Tk ur time.
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reader, arie +, writes (18 May 2009):
 hiiiiiiiii lolz um girl i say keep your virginity, there aint no guy in this world that is worth losing your viginity over ok. im a virgin too and ive been in four relationships. its normal to like guys that get physical, but u need to be the one to tell them the boundaries. you dont need to get confused on guys that dont get physical with you because to me that is a sign that they respect you and that they are just taking things slowly ok. that is a good thing. i say wait. and no one can control the kind of guys that they like, its normal but u set the standards high. u dont have to give it up for someone who only is attracted to your outside, cuz u may fall in love, lose it and they leave you and u end up devestated. so be smart about it ok. i hope u like my advice. good luck and godbless
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): i think u should take a brake from dating.
i think it's great ur choice to stay a virgin in our soceity keeping it seems like it is more than a sin than loosing it.
maybe don't expect every guy to be like that and when if he does get like that brake it off.
u need to respect urself and these much too physical relationships arent a good way of keeping urself safe.
good luck
&&
stay a virgin
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reader, MissEhm  +, writes (18 May 2009):
well i think u are very smart for wanting to keep you virginity in tact and that u should keep it that way till u know u r ready and with the perfect guy.
Ignore all they jerks cause most of them probably only wanted 1 thing. So dont get yourself down while thinking your not pretty
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