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writes:i am in love with two men. the one pleases me like you wolud not believe in the bedroom. our souls connect an we make love like no other. the second man gives me everything in a healthy relationship needed! (attention, respect, makes me laugh, loves my child, gets along with my family! the first one was never there! all of a sudden now that i left the 1st one he wants to marry me now. now that im gone he wants to give me everything! i am so confused... i need to make a decision an i dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (18 May 2009):
 Its great having a man who gives you respect and is caring etc but if the sex is not there or the passion then sooner or later your be looking elsewere! Does this other man not give you the sex/connection you want?
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reader, Pyro_Dimples +, writes (18 May 2009):
 Personal question...have you had sex with the second?
If so was he just not up there or what?
I think you would be better off with number two. He seems like the better bet and not such a flake. The first seems like the kinda guy that wants what he can't have and then as soon as he gets it doesn't want it.
hope that helps a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): Only you can make that decision and think what is right for you, your family and your future.
The second man that you describe sounds like he gives you everything you need as you move forward. You need to make sure the decision you make now will be the right one for years to come and not purely on animal instinct!
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