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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm so confused with guys right now. a while ago i went to a party, drank and hooked up with this boy i met. after that night he kept texting me nonstop. at first he only bothered me by texting twice if i didnt text back within a certain amount of minutes. and it kept happening everyday so eventually i just stopped texting overall. but then he started to text me everyday saying 'hey'! and i dont understand why he doesnt get that i do not want to talk to him. i do feel bad about ignoring him, but if i do text him back he'll keep annoying me. and i really dont want to be mean to him and tell him to stop texting. sometimes i get urges to talk to him and want to see him. but that would only be sexually. and i dont like him in anyway rather than that. what should i do?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (18 May 2009):
 perhaps he just really likes you as more than just a friend and really wants to give you guys a go.
i mean fair enough you've told him he's not getting it,
maybe talk to him on the phone and just say look you're really lovely but i really would rather be friends i am not looking for a relationship at the moment but we can still be friends.
and tell him that it annoys you he constantly texts and that if you want to talk to him you'll give him a text rather than him always texting you,
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthats the thing, he knows i dont see him as a boyfriend or want a relationship or anything, but he still bothers me with texts. hes a nice kid and everything but i just dont like him at all. i just want to be friends and for him to stop annoying me. he can talk to my other friends without bothering them and texting them constantly so why cant he do the same with me?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (18 May 2009):
why not just tell him you don't see anything happening with you guys and to you it was just a bit of fun, nothing more.
perhaps then he'll get the message and leave you alone :)
hope this helps.
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