| Now he thinks it's all my fault! Help! |
| | Question - (18 May 2009) | 0 Answers - (Newest, ) | A
female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok i dont no what to do! Long story but one of my mates who tbh you probably wont bleieve me but hes the ones of the nicest lads ever! Ok he liked a girl and still does and asked her out but then she changed her mind... and i got an email off someone else saying she wont go out with him cuz of hurting me (ok yes i love this lad a hell of a lot) but then i spoke to her and she said it wasnt and gave me all these other reasons and i told her to just go out with him, once on her own and the next time infront of him! Later on when someone asked him what had gone off he told this person and me that i had helped a lot! a few weeks later this girl got back with her bf and is still with him now although a part of her dont wanna be. Thing is i asked her last week does she still wanna be with him becasue id heard people saying stuff and yea she knows i wanna be with him , although we never will be and she says shes doesnt no what she; say if he asked her out...but then she says she cant do it becasue shes sure he dont wanna be with her and cuz of me. She knows full well he wants to be with her!The thing is now he's told this other mate that its all my fault and that stopped it happening! Apparently he thinks shes freaked out because she knows how much i love him and hes alwyas thought i;ve gone way over the top with being to much in love with him. yea i love him but i;ve never shown it that much or done anything to suggest that. Then me and him went out and he said he wanted to go out again when everyone is..but then he starts saying stuff like i looked different and funny at first because hes never seen me dressed up... no wonder i have no self asteem to go out and do stuff! hes not said any of this to my face but if i say summat to him its gonna put our mate that told me this in a difficult position and i really dont see how he can blame me for everything!!! its not my fault!!! is it? Reply to this Question
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