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writes:my question is;i have been with this women for 9months and its on the internet only.iam over 3000 miles away from her..is it right of me to ask of her to cut the contact with her male friends ,she seems to have an open door policy when it comes to allowing men to come thru. iam working to ask her to settle down with me where i live.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): That's a lot to ask of someone you never met and she is right to keep her options open. Why don't you meet her, instead of considering settling down with her when you have so little to go on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): baby duck..i ask the question to cut the male friends,
heres a little more info about me and her..
what i meant was i have known her for 9mths and its only been over the phone conversations period..we have talked about her coming to live with me ,she wants this ..we will be living together in july 2009. i have sworn off from other girls and she has from old boyfriends.today she ended up going over to a guy friends-who she has known since 5 years ago.this guy is a single parent and he called my girl up and told her to come over and he would give her a bike for her daughter. my girl said i will tell you about all my friends girl or guy. this guy she didnt..i called her and
kind of surprised her ,when she answered he said iam over her waiting for my older daughter down the street to come and get me ,then we can go home.i didnt think nothing about this .then i heard the guy in the background and then she said this guys name and i said whos that she said his name,
i said whos that a family member she said no its a friend ..i said does he have a family she said yes..i then asked her whats his wife doing .talking with you..my girl said no he is not married..i then said ok thats got to stop unless i am there with you ..i dont mind you having male or female friends,,as long as iam with you to meet them..
so my question once again is should she have all these male single parent friends..yes or no and should i allow her the time to visit them or see them ,,even though iam 3000 miles away.she is in the service.need your help..we havent held each other yet..help..
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reader, librababy  +, writes (18 May 2009):
 ok,personally i don't think its wrongto ask her to cut contacts with her male friends,nine months is a long time and for you to be considering to ask her to come settle with you yhat means you have very strong feelings for this person,so i don't think is wrong ok.
P.S if she don't see it that way maybe she it not for you,good luck.
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