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*w1974
writes:Hi all, just a strange situation goin on and would like some input. Ive been chattin to a girl and we arranged to meet up, then on the day of the date she kinda gets flaky to which i send her an email stating a few things to put her mind at rest if she was nervous about meeting me, this was a first date by the way. She txt me an i told her ive just sent her an email so she read it and got it totally the wrong way, and promptly deleted me from her friends list. However a few hours later she txt me askin did it say this or that, when i corrected her she said she has definatley read it the wrong way.i just said that i wanted to clear any doubts about meeting up, which she replied with shes a trusting person an knows i aint lyin because ive got no reason to. After this though ive no more txts or contact from her even though ive text her twice.Any input would be great. Thanks.
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reader, jw1974 +, writes (18 May 2009):
jw1974 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the input, but i may just leave it, her excuses to not go on the date where a bit poor, i txt her and she said great you txt because i broke my phone, my interenet is playing up and had no way to contact you, ive had a bad weekend and got a migraine. Seems like it was just excuses really.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 May 2009):
 I agree with Gina. TALK to her, not text her. Makes life so much easier when you don't have to try and explain everything twice.
If she is worried about meeting up with you, then make sure you suggest a nice public place, meet her for coffee, make the meeting short and sweet. That way it's time enough for her to make up her mind ( and you) if you want to meet again. Don't put the pressure of a DATE out there for the first meeting.
Have some short burts coffee meetings, then if you really hit it off coffee will turn into dinner, dinner into a movie and so on. Get of the darn cell phones and computer and TALK face to face. People are so much less likely to lie or "fabricate" when meeting face to face.
Good luck,
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