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36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok so i met this really amazing guy he was so sweet and stuff calling me all the things i've always wanted to hear in my life and i thought finally!!!i'm going to have the relationship i've always wanted!so i wanted to meet up with him Saturday so he agreed but then Saturday came anmd i text him to try and arrange a time to meet but no response i thought that's odd because he'd always respond so i tried to call him but still no response so i started to get a little bit worried then i had a few drinks with my mate at a house party and i got pretty drunk so i left him an answer phone saying he had made me feel like a complete moron! i thought he wanted to meet me so on and so forth then the next day he actaully text me and my friend had his number on her phone as she tried to ring him also but had no luck.then she started to text him pretending to be a girl from Friday night we were messing about but then he spilled the truth to my friend saying he did get with someone the friday night and kissed her and went home with her but apparently "passed" out and didn't do anything else and he eventually told me he kissed another girl but none of the rest and said he then realised how much he actually wanted me!i was really peeved at this i know we weren't together but that's not the point if you really like someone and are trying to get with them surely that means not getting off with girls and going back to theres right?or am i just being completely stupid?he always told me like luvs ya in texts and i would say what you mean and he said like love you i would say but you hardly know me which is true.but he insisted he did and that we would be so good together and i knew this would happen because i told my friend Saturday night i reckon he's with someone else and he doesn't want to tell me.oh and then yesterday he actually asked me if i could drop him over his friends!!! Bit rude? i think so.so my question is am i completely wrong to feel so angry and really annoyed at this?or am i totally in the wrong?i mean he built up my hopes for what?nothingplease can you give me an answer or something because i am really like confused and everything.Thanks.x
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (18 May 2009):
 Yeah you have every right to be angry i certainly would be, he is messing you around and he cant even be honest about it, ignoring calls and texts is just so childish, and asking you for a lift th guy has some nerve, you deserve better, delete his numer and find someone that deserves you and will treat you with some respect!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 May 2009):
Well you've learned that just because a guy says the right things, it doesn't mean he's not a complete idiot.
Yes you should be annoyed.
But don't waste time on being annoyed too long. Just delete his number cut contact and move on.
He's not worth your time or worry when there are 5 million other guys in the UK who you can meet.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): yeah but see that is the thing he told me he really liked me and he told me we would be together.
he told me he looks on into the future and i was there.
but how can i even trust him?
when he did that?
after convincing me we would be really good together?
he kept telling me i was beautiful and he couldn't wait to meet me and stuff.
i know we weren't and aren't together but why have him build this whole thing saying we would be good together and he looks to the future and i am in his future as his girlfriend...
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