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writes:okay so heres my problem im a big girl and well im not like a whale but im quite big and i have a problem with like taking my clothes off infront of my boyfriend i mean once im nakid im really comfy but i just wana no how to feel sexy, this man has kissed every inch of me pleasured me for hours tells me he loves me but we have both been unfaithful and ever since he has i just i cant stand my stomach and hips there all flabby and stretch marky and i dont reli know what new things to try any ideas wud be a massive help, my sex drive is way too high and i'll try anything once or 2s
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): I'm a big girl myself. I haven't always been, but for about the last ten years or so, I've been rather "chunky." I've dated chunky guys, really big guys and skinny guys. Its all in the eye of the beholder. If he is turned off by your body, then he wouldn't have done the things that he did to you sexually.
I ended up marrying a skinny guy-I'm not HUGE but I outweigh him at the moment by about 90 pounds. At times, I still hide my body and we've been together for about 2 years. I know this will sound cliche but I do have a larger than average bone structure and my hubby likes it just fine. Like another poster said, in order to be sexy-you gotta feel sexy. Do something for yourself that boosts your self esteem. Buy new clothes, get a new hairdo, nails done, etc. Tell yourself that your man loves you for who you are whether or not you are skinny or have more to love. Embrace your curves-not everybody likes the same things sweetheart!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): He sees you everyday with clothes on I'm pretty sure he has a nice general idea of what you look like in whole, and he must think you're beautiful or else he wouldn't be dating you and would go find someone stick figure. So girl flaunt that body and love yourself naked and all. Also if it helps buy some flattering fitting lingerie. I just stare in the mirror, and pick out nice things about myself when I'm naked.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (19 May 2009):
 It's all in the mind, you feel sexy, you are sexy. Perhaps to give you that boost in feeling sexy try hitting up ann summers or similar shop and picking out a hot outfit? Confidence within yourself is key, love yourself and what you've got cos at the end of the day it's you, and obviously you can pull, it's not all that bad huh? Could be worse, right? One of my motto's in life is that if you think sexy you are sexy, and others will find so, If you think negatively of yourself, I see it like you drain yourself of all your positive aspects, also which others will find so, so it's all in the mind :) x Becky x
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (18 May 2009):
 Head to the gym!!!!
Eat more healthy!
Im sure your boyfriend loves you just the way you are, but its all in your head hun only you can change this, either by losing weight or just by loving yourself and accepting u have a great man who loves your body! dont waste time worrying about beautiful curves, a man loves something to hold onto!!!
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