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Can it be salvaged? Or did I already screw it up?

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Question - (18 May 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, was seeing this guy for about 3 months- yeah, not a long time (though he'd been trying to get a date with me for 2 years), but I felt we had a good connection, and it seemed like feelings were growing between us...him saying stuff such as "I like you alot" and "I'm really attracted to you". He'd been saying that he felt he might be too busy right now to get serious with anyone, but I understood his job was stressful, and figured we could take it slow. He even makes a date to hang out with me, after he says this.

...and then he stands me up, doesn't answer me for 2 weeks, before finally breaking it off in a txt, saying "I don't want to lead you on into thinking we can be more than friends." This was 2 weeks ago.

And I did the really stupid thing alot of people do when they're heartbroken- sending sad weepy txt messages. An angry one too, 2 days after it happened. And the stock "well, this is YOUR loss" this weekend, after the "can we talk about what was wrong?" one went unanswered. I KNOW- huge mistake.

I'm really ashamed of myself- 2 weeks, and I think the longest I've gone without txting anything was 3 days. I finally vowed, today, to engage in NO contact- but I wonder, is it already too late? Have I already pushed him so far away, that he'll never miss me or think of coming back?

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