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We don't have to get back together but I don't want him to hate me

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Question - (18 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend broke up with me recently when we argued in a club, saying we argue too often, and it's not working He does this alot and we always get back together, but this time, I told a friend of mine that he used to make himself sick for attention when we argued, he doesnt k now this friend but he read my messages and found out. He is so angry and I feel like such a bad person. How can I make things better? We dont have to be back together again, I just atleast want him to not HATE me. Thanks so much x

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2009):

He won't hate you.

He's just following his usual pattern of doing something to make you panic and feel bad so you'll take him back when he decides he wants to get back with you.

Leave him to it. He's clearly not a good guy to be in a relationship with. He's manipulative and not quite stable.

So stop worrying and move on. Don't let him keep controlling you.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (18 May 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntJust let him know the truth, that he drives you to the point of insanity, and you needed to vent.

After that, ask him to explain why he went through your msgs, he sounds a bit manipulative and controlling, to be honest.

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