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writes:My girlfriend who last month turned 25 broke up with me over 4 months ago. It was not a bad break up, she felt as if she wasent putting the effort i was in the relationship. I was sad , heartbroken but went on. We dated for 1 year, well I kept busy did not call,text,email no contact with hear what so ever. Well she sent me a text here and there. Called me I did not pick up, and she did not leave a message. She did manage to get me on the phone twice, but she spoke of nothing. She let me know everything she has been doing her schedule, work, everything. She tried to call me tonight 6 times in less than a 30 min span. She sent me a text to call her , so I thought it was an emergency. I spoke with her and its about nothing, shes drunk I could tell and just tells me basically nothing , just about her life. I let her go because I was helping a friend move a couch. I dont know what to make of this . I am confused ? dont know what to do or if i should do anything at all.
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reader, garcypher  +, writes (18 May 2009):
Try asking her what she wants. She might simply be missing you and wants to rekindle what you both had; or she might feel unsure about how she feels about you and needs to talk.If you find you both want the same thing then talk; if not, just stay friends.
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reader, Prophet7 +, writes (18 May 2009):
She probably misses being able to talk to you about random things. She may now realize how much she liked having you around. She talks about nothing maybe hoping that you will bring up getting back together. If you're happier now just keep her as a friend. If you're not trying to get back together and she doesn't bring it up when she calls, you can just continue as friends. Hope my advice helps you. God Bless... Prophet7
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (18 May 2009):
 i'm sure she called just to hear ur voice..i dont think u should give her a chance at all but of course its only ur choice if u feel like shes not trying then i think u should stop trying too and just move on..if shes drunk and dailed ur number it probably ment ur on her mind..if u want to be sure just try talking to her and ask wat she really wants from u and if something too complicated then say u cant offer that and just walk away..remember she left u heartbroken so it means shes the one that did everything it isnt ur fault..on the other hand i think u should let her go and go meet someone else
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