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writes:im still madly in love with my ex and cant seem to get over him at all no matter what i do hes always in my thoughts... we slept together on a few occasions i only slept with him because im still really in love with him and thinking he might be still in love with me.. about 3 weeks ago he was texting me wanting me to sleep with him i didnt though.cos it hurt too much cos im still very attracted to him ... a week later hes in a relationship which is a long distance one .. im sooo gutted i feel soo used and stupid it hurts soo much,, i txt him the other day telling him how hurt i am cos of what he has done and leting my emotions take control .. it wasnt the nicest message but it had to be said cos ive been so nice to him after everything he did .. he didnt reply 4 a few days but when he did it was at 1:00am he cracked it at me saying that im full of shit and that it hurt him with what i said to him.. so i txt him to say i wanted my shit back cos ive waited soo long 4 them back so i decided i had enough .. he told me to come over and get them so i did .. when i was there he was asking me why i said that he was an asshole and i told him he hurt me and shit.. any way he kept saying that hes in the relationship and that she is his future but he also said its not a serious relationship cos its long distance and stuff ..this was killing me inside him telling me this was absolute torture but i kept a cool head and just listened.. things started to get relly weird because he was saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would sleep with me and he was saying that im very attactive and have a great body and all this shit .. i didnt know what to say so i just stood there cos it was sooo weird him saying that .. he was telling me how much he didnt want to dump me but he felt like he had to watch everything he said cos i was getting upset real easy ... ( i had a little bit of depression) but i always treated him right i gave him the world he told me i was the best gf he has had and that he was thinking of marrying me but then it went bad .. anyway it was getting late so i got my stuff and was goin to go home when i was walking out to my car he was putting his arm around me and stuff.(weird) then he grabbed me and started cuddling me and saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would go me and asked me if i went inside would i do anything and im like hell no ur in a relationhip and i hate cheaters i wouldnt do that ever.... then he was like as if u wouldnt do anything and hes like u wouldnt be the 1 cheating i would be im like nOOOOOO then hes like ohh thats good cos i wouldnt anyway but i couldnt belive it at all i just didnt know wat to do i couldnt beive i was hearing this ... he put his arms around me and started to cuddle me again then he kisssed my forehead and said goodbye .. i was like wtf ... i dont know what he is doin or what hes playing at .. do u guys think hes over me fully and she is a rebound or is he playing with me more any sugestions will be appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): hey, this man was playing with your emotions.
let the long distance gf deal with him. you, you just move on although it hurts like hell. you deserve better and the sooner you realise this, the sooner you will realise how he emotionally manipaulated you.
you are a good person, do not let anyone (ex bf included) treat you like sex shit. plse hold your head up high, smile through the tears, blow your nose, take a deep breath and say I WILL BE OK, I WILL SURVIVE THIS. CRY AGAIN IF YOU WANT TO. THEN SLOWLY NOMALITY RETURNS. yes, your life will be better and brighter and slowly you will pass this hurting. you need to mourn the death of this relationship, then when the next one starts you will be ready.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009): girl he is just playing with u you shoul just tell him goodbye and that you ont want to see him anymore thats what i suggest, i ont know if it will work but i hope it does
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 May 2009):
He's saying "I don't like you enough to make effort with you and be your boyfriend. But you are still just about attractive enough for me to have sex with."
He's being an arrogant pig.
Get your stuff. Tell him you would not have sex with him if he paid you and walk away.
Never speak to this guy again as he doesn't sound like he's worth wiping your shoes on.
Good Luck!! xx
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