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Having doubts and want to end the relationship

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Question - (12 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *abyPip.x writes:

I have been going out with a guy for over a month now, but for the past 3 weeks I've been having doubts about the relationship and decided I want to end it.

We started going out 5days before half term, and during the half term break I had no contact with him as he had my mobile number but I didn't have his, so when we went back to school, things were a little weird.

The reasons for me wanting to end it are that we never talk to each other, yet we see each other 5days a week in school, and even when we did talk it was kind of akward. Also, I have been dealing with a lot of problems in my life at the moment and school is my chance to escape from those problems, but now I have this relationship as a problem at school.

What I'm asking is, how do you break up with someone you don't speak to? Get him alone? Note? Friend?

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A female reader, iSmil3y United States +, writes (14 May 2009):

Just tell him you guys need to talk. Take him somewhere, where you two are alone and let him know how you feel and tell him you need a boyfriend that puts effort into the relationship and actually talks to you but you'd still like to be friends, if it's alright with him.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2009):

Just walk up to him and say "we need to talk" then MAKE him walk somewhere alone with you.

Just tell him that since he doesn't make any effort to speak to you then you don't want to be with him.

Give him a hug and tell him no hard feelings then walk away.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, sammi star United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2009):

sammi star agony auntTry to get this boy alone. He won't appreciate you getting a friend to do it. If you really can't get him on his own then yeah, a note would be a good idea. Good luck

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