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writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for three years. Hes always been the love of my life, until about a week ago i found out that he had cheated on me. Due to his dumb actions i now have an STD. He knows he messed up, and has apologized. I truely believe he wont do it again, but i also know I'll never look at him the same. What do i do? Should i move on or give him another chance?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): I recently had a similar situation. I took my partner back after he had left me for a much younger woman, he gave me an std. I only found out this when also discovering I was pregnant. We discussed options and decided to have a termination and treat the std situation. He offered no support trough out that difficult time, and this week discovered he was still sleeping with that younger woman and now, again, have an std - different from before. She is very easy and sleeps around, which turns out so did he. I don't want you to think it was an easy task to take him back. He promised me it was a mistake and he would spend time making it up to me as he understood I was his true love. He was lying and sleeping with us both. You and I are worth more x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your answers, theyve impacted my decision to leave. I realize i was naive when i believed i couldnt live without him,but due to time,i kno now that i could never live with him for what he has done.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (12 May 2009):
 Your really going to hate me for saying this but he may be the love of your life but do you really think you are the love of his?
He cheated on you. Babe i'm really sorry but you don't cheat on someone you love and would give the world to be with. Plus he gave you an STI which shows he probs cheated on you with someone who sleeps around abit which is even worse.
Your young babe. I bet your beautiful on the inside and outside and any boy would be lucky to have you so find that perfect one that will love you and not mess you around.
Good luck honey
Livia
xoxox
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reader, bonjour23 +, writes (12 May 2009):
I think what he did is horrible. And I think you are too young to be passing through this but anyways,it's your desicion if you wanna go back with him or not.Sometimes at that age you are just not prepare for a serious relationship and commitment like that.You know him more than me and you will know if he is truly sorry or not.Although, don't let him fool you, keep your eyes open. I cannot tell you to stay or leave but I tell you one thing if you decide to go back with him think about it a lot and make it really hard for him, play difficult cause if he really loves you he will wait for you, make him wait, make him prove you that he is sorry, make him miss you and realize what he is loosing. If he can't wait, well, he's not worth it. If I decided to go back with him, I will make him go to the doctor and use protection until you feel confortable and trust him again wich it's gonna take long so if he loves you he'll be pacient. Most of the people that cheat do it again but I think there's a little percentage of people that realize that they made a mistake, they are trully sorry and they will change if they really love you and realized that they made a dumb desicion.Good Luck and be careful! Educate yourself and if you go back with him, he should educate himself about STDS cause that's something really serious and dangerous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): I can't believe you haven't hacked his balls off by now!
Move on. He definitely isn't worth spending any more time or emotion on. The word 'irresposible' doesn't even begin to cover it.
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