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writes:I really don't know what to do...ive been with my boyfriend for only 8 months, and i love him so much... its that kind of love that isnt exiting but its always there kind of love. like youde do anything for them... almost everything. but about 10 months ago, while i was just seeing my current boyfriend, i met this other guy. he was very attractive,mysterios and such a gentleman...he really got me going it was strange because i am not one to fall for people easily. i had two flings with him, one the night after the other. they were in his fathers hotel and he really took my breath away and hes such a bad boy. after that he told me he loved me, i felt something for him but i knew the guy i was seeing would please my parents more and would suit me more as he lived closer, more my age etc.but recently, i have no idea why, i cant stop thinking about this other guy. i just cant. theres just soemthing absolutely magical about him. ive tried to get over it over and over again but i cant stop. i had a dream about him and funnily enough i bumped into him the next day. he gave he a hug and i melted and i just...i am soo sure i love him. i have this amazing soft spot for him, and its not because i just fancy him...and now i really dont know what to do because i cant stop...i need him. i absolutely crave him and i have no idea why because im in a reasonably happy relationshop with my current boyfriend who loves me and is very very kind...please help me on what to do as i feel what ever i choose will be wrong. thanks. x Reply to this Question
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reader, Denizen +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Choose the lighter happiness.
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reader, Mr.Insignificant  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 You are not happy with the relationship that you are in now. That is ok. You are allowed to be you and feel the way you feel. You say that your current relationship is, "reasonably happy" meaning that you are comfortable with it...as a second option.It isn't what you need though. Do the right thing here if you are going to leave your boyfriend. Leave him BEFORE anything further develops with your Bad Boy. Human decency demands that for all parties involved. You will respect yourself and it will go a looong way with Mr. Bad Boy in the sense that you weren't looking to play him as second fiddle. It will also give you cred when it comes to earning his trust.Good luck.
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