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Why is he flirting with me if he doesn't like me?

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Question - (12 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *imisoph3 writes:

theres this guy i liked since ever we would always flirt but he would always be mean to me saying i should shave my face and i'm effin ugly and i know his joking cuz he always smiles and continues flirting well today i decided that i wantted to text him we texted and he kept fliring saying stuff wit winky faces then i thought that it would be a great chance telling him how i felt so i told him i liked him he seemed suprised cuz he was like really ahha and i said yea lol and he said i'm always an asshole to u though and i told him i know but sometimes his actually pretty cool..then later i asked him if he thought i was still ughly and he said yup and i asked if he was joking he said i never joke wit a smily face.then i asked him if he liked me he said nope! then later i said wow u rally are an asshole i'm over u and he said thats wat they all say and i saiid yea but i'm starting to realize ur a joke and not worth my time..i'm so not over hiimm i'm not over him at all i like him.but i dont understand if he likes me or not pleasee helpp me..i told my friend this morning i liked him and she seemed soo happy and she has him in one of her classes and she said were so cute together then when i told her wat happened she said wat a jerkk i know he is but i dont understand why is he flirting wit me if he doesnt like me..tomorrow i'm gonna see him in school and i've decided to ignore him is that a good idea or should i just face the rejection..but i keep thinking he was joking i'm so confused please helpp

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

Okay, I'm not saying I'm right, but from my point of view; it looks like he doesn't like you, but this really doesn't mean you should give up. I've been crushing on this guy since lats February until now, and I still haven't gave up ;) We still remain best friends until today.

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (14 May 2009):

mimisoph3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

mimisoph3 agony aunti didnt talk to him at all..the only time i said a word was before the class ended i said hey and he was like supp and it felt soo weirdd.its almost at the end of the year and i wanna change classes or seats noww..i feel that wat i said was a hugee mistake

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (13 May 2009):

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mimisoph3 agony aunti definitly did the silent treatment but the thing that confused me is that he pretened like nothing happened yesterday.he talked to me a little and i just nodded a few times and talked to a guy next to me.and i had my friends yearbook so at the end of the class we had free time to talk.i just signed the yearbook and kept looking at it.then when the bell rang he walked in front of me and stopped pretending like he thought he forgot something.also when wee had reading before class and when the reading silence stopped he wanted to put away my book but i just got his and the guy behind him (who likes me) so that i didnt make it obvious..and at the end of the class i was walking wit my friend and he was in front of us and i told me friend how i felt awekward and he stopped turned around and raised his eyebrow i did the same thing in return..but i know he didnt hear me say that ughh pleasee continue helping me

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