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writes:ok so i'm 15 years old, and a high school fresh man. i have this problem. there's this guy who i just met this year. i noticed that i really like him for about 3 mouths now. he's so nice and we always text each other. i would say we're pretty close friends. he rides my bus and we always talk and text. the big problem is that he already has a girlfriend from his old school. when i first met him at the beginning of the year, i helped if hook up with his girlfriend because i didn't like him then. now i regret it. one of my friends keeps telling me to try and get his attention by dressing more girly. i always wear black and a lot of black eyeliner. i keep saying that i don't want to change myself just for a guy, but i really like him. he's diiferent from other guys i know. he's so nice and doesn't make fun of me. i don't know what to do? I'm scared that if he finds out that I like him, it'll ruin our friendship. someone please help. i have no idea what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Heya
well if he is your friend already, as you are, then you dont have any need to change for him because he already likes you for you.
However, he does have a girlfriend, and harsh as it may be, you should respect that. If the tables were turned and he was your boyfriend, you'd be devastated if someone tried to intervene. If i were you, Id just stay friends for now, and see where it goes from there, because you dont want to be known as the person who broke them up.
If he tells you he likes you, or they break up, then its another story altogether.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Hey..Well..I've been in this kind of situation before..For me,if i really like that person,eventhough he/she is really close to us,i'd go for it.Even if the answer is not a positive one.Just dont give up,at least we've tried..Yeah?Dont be afraid..The point here is,just dont give up,and good luck to ya..
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