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writes:Hi,I have been dating a girl for 3 months up to february and she asked to seperate for a while. We have met a few times as friends, but I have just found that she has found someone else and I feel really upset. I don't know what to do to make me feel better.Do you have any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): Find another girl. It's the only way.
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reader, mikefromms  +, writes (12 May 2009):
Call her briefly and wish her the best with her dating. Tell her how much you have enjoyed her company and that if she ever needs to talk to anyone about any problems you will be there. Don't sound sad, don't beg. Just be strong and secure and put that on the table. She will respect that.
Go on with your life, hobbies, get out and have fun. She may just want to shop around awhile. Do not appear upset over your break around her. Appear strong but not like I'm glad it over. If she is for you, she'll come back. If not, life goes on and there are plenty of fish out there.
Good luck. Now go do something clean and fun.
Mikefromms
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reader, alphamale +, writes (12 May 2009):
I was in the same situation you're in. I started going out with this girl in february, by the end of march she told me she needed some space, about a week later she calls me to work things out only for her to finally end it all about two weeks ago. what she wasn't telling me is that her ex boyfriend was sending her messages and she still had feelings for him (she told me this a few days ago)I finally decided not to talk to this girl anymore, and you shouldnt either. whenever someone asks you for space, it means she's trying to let you down easy. No woman who's in a happy relationship would want to ever separate from her man. I know it's tough, but try to find someone who can appreciate you. it's better for you to cut off ties with her and dedicate your time on a hobby, the gym etc etc.Maybe it's a blessing in disguise, maybe she wasnt the right one for you
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