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writes:i am working on reuniting with my boyfriend of 4 years. he has joined other singles groups and has reunited with old female friends. he is have a party at his home in a few weeks and i am not invited and am feeling very badly about this. does this sound normal or should i not be concerned. Reply to this Question
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 This doesnt really make much sense? You say working on reuniting with your boyfriend of 4 years - how can you reuinite with him when he is your boyfriend already? Or do you mean your ex-boyfriend who you went out with for 4 years/4 years ago?
It sounds to me if he has joined other singles groups and is contacting lots of other old female friends that he is not looking to be with any 1 person in particular and he is probably looking for a bit of fun. If he hasnt invited you to a party at his house then that is a sign he is not interested, you need to accept this and move on.
If he is an ex, he is an ex for a reason. The relationship didnt work the 1st time so why would it be any different the second time around? He probably hasnt invited you to this party because he doesnt want to drag his past into his present. There is a difference between contacting old friends and contacting ex partners - you dont want the "ex" hanging around when you are trying to find a new relationship!
It seems to me like he does not want to give your relationship another try so let him go and move on.
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