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female
age
30-35,
*ngym6
writes:I'm 19 year old and since i've been 14 im attracted to older man. My first boyfriend that lasted 2 years and half was 28 and i was 14, he was the best he used to take me out to eat, picked me up at school, took me out ect. We kissed, hugged and touched never oral or penetrating sex. He respected me and never offered it either. I lost mmy virginity to my next boyfriend and i was 17 and we were together for only months i lost it to someone that really didn't even care about me well i only did something with him about 4 times the most and in away i never did or learned anything really i have never said wow this is what i was missing it was all about him, he got his orgasms and he was happy we were done and if in the way i had mine ok but later i even felt nasty and lost interest. Now that im 19 almost 20 i have found a wonderful man thats 31 and we have know each other for about 5 months and i have dicided that im going to be with him but im scared of what. that if what i know is not good or to mess it up i dont know, also i dont know what to do and i feel like if i tell him that really i dont know what to do his going to ask so what was it that happened with the other guy and i dont want to touch that topic once again in my life. What should i do should i be scared or just let it be.
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reader, romance888 +, writes (18 May 2009):
if you are not honest with him, then you will try to hide from him in sexual matters and it will affect how free you are to orgasim yourself. If he cares for you, he will listen and try to help you, be tender with you and nurturing with you.
Sex is about commuication, and letting the other know what feels good and what does not. talk to each other, let it be a bonding time physically, sexually emotionaly, romanticly, ask him to go slow, use a lot of foreplay and enjoy the time, dont hurry through it, take your time and enjoy..
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reader, Who +, writes (12 May 2009):
 Tell him you do not have a lot of experience and he is going to have to go slow with you; take thing a little farther each time you are together. He is going to have to give you a little time to get used to things. Don’t worry, you two will figure it out. Couples have been figuring this out since the dawn of time.
Good luck and hope this helps.
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