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My boyfriend is reluctant to go on holiday because of what I did whilst we were on a break!

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Question - (12 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *icole19 writes:

my boyfriends mom wants him to go to Moscow for 2 weeks with her! i think its a great thing to do..i told him i wanted him to go! a couple months ago we took a break and i messed around with another guy he found out (before i got a chance to tell him) and broke up with me. we got back together and been strong since. but now he said hes not comfortable leaving and i think its cause of me. how can reassure that nothing bad is going to happen while his is gone. even though i told him if he does go hed better call me everyday! and email me. I work everyday except mondays and even then im not into partying. i know that im not going to be anything stupid but i want him to believe me when i say so, id hate to be the reason he misses out.

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A female reader, molly4 Australia +, writes (12 May 2009):

molly4 agony auntI think that you should explain to him that you know you hurt him really badly before, and you regret it, but you want to earn his trust so he wont have to worry while he goes away. You will have to earn back him trust after what you did to him.

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