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41-50,
*obbycali2002
writes:about 3 weeks ago my girfriend decides that she needed some time and want to focus on herself and figure out what she wanted to do after graduating from college.we dated through a long distance relationship and everything was great and were making plan for her to live with me after college.we were looking at rings and looking for home to maybe buy. our future seemed real great together.then i get a call and she completly made a uturn on our life together and decides that she ia all sudden she want her free time. i spent a few weeks trying to figure out why and could not get a response why. a couple weeks later she calls me and wants to break out relationship off because she needed some time to think about us and what she wants to do. I felt real bad and decided to agree. i was truly hurt but kepted busy and tried my best to forget about the situation. then she calls me a week later crying and calling me over and over one saturday night...i tried not to answer but as i was setting my phone to mute she calls me again and im forced to talk to her.of course her conversation was how much she made a mistake and how much she misses me. now we talk and our conversations are real boring and have no point...my huge question is...i will be traveling to visit friends in the town that she is from and i really dont want to see her and she has asked for me to stay with her...should i or should i not.
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reader, bobbycali2002 +, writes (12 May 2009):
bobbycali2002 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the responses everybody...to answer a couple questions.
why do i want to see her...i basically want to tell her that i dont really want to talk to her anymore, when we talk now she acts likes she is too busy for me, like she is playing a game, so i want to just tell her to get on with our lives.
but all in all i do care about her but but many peoples responses i believe i have to just let her go.
thanks again everybody
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (12 May 2009):
 Well for what reason did she say she made a "mistake"?
LDR's are very hard if not impossible to maintain. I would think that you need to think very hard about this.
Sounds fishy to me. On her part. I'd steer clear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): Why should you if you don't want to see her.
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