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anonymous
writes: my ex broke up with me 7 mothns ago during the duration of the breakup weve slept togther on a few occasions... to him it was a friends with benifits situation but to me it always felt like more .. at times i think he doesnt really know what he wants even though he says hes over me and all that .. but as we all know action speak louder than words .. 2 weeks ago he was texting me wanting me to sleep with him i didnt though because it was hurting me sleeping with him .... a week later hes in a relationship which is a long distance one ... it hurts so much because i love him sooo much i txt him the other day telling him how hurt i am cos of what he has done .. it wasn't the nicest message but it had to be said .. he didn't reply 4 a few days but when he did it was at 1:00am he cracked it at me saying that i'm full of shit and that it hurt him with what i said to him. i had enough of his shit so i messaged him to say i wanted my shit back cos i've waited so long 4 them back so i decided i had enough .. he told me to come over and get them so i did .. when i was there he was asking me y i said that he was an asshole and i told him he hurt me and shit.. any way he kept saying that he's in the relationship and that she is his future but he also said it's not a serious relationship cos its long distance and stuff .... my ex was really saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would sleep with me and he was saying that i'm very attractive and have a great body and all this shit .. he was telling me how much he didnt want to dump me because he felt really comfortable with me coz we were both right into sport and stuff ... he told me i was the best gf he has had and that he was thinking of marrying me but then his feelings change .. when i got my weights there was 1 missing and hes like it could be anywhere ill give ti to ya someother time but i waas adement i was finding it which i did ..anyway when i was leaving he was puttin his arm around me then he satred to say that would i do anything if we went inside i said no way cosi hate cheaters and hes like y would u feel bad im like cos i know ur in a relationship and hes like u wont be the one cheating .. i was horrified i was like wtf then he started giving me a cuddle i was sooo confused because he was telling me earlier hes over me adnd i need to move on but he acts like that i dont get it .. when i was leaving he put his arms around me and kissed my forhead .. wat is he playing at people can any1 help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): I hate to sound harsh but this guy is a user. He is using you for sex. he is not emtionally involved with you at all. As harsh as it sounds, delete him from your phone, make it clear to him that you want a man in your life not a boy and hes a boy.
That being said you need to make sure you look after yourself you have stood up for yourself somewhat but listen sweetheart (im not being condascending, my heart goes out to you) dont ever let a man who youve broken up with just have sex because he feels like it,
I am sure that after you dust yourself off there will be plenty of other guys, Relax enjoy yourself there is no rush.
I hope this helps
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