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Can I think of her as a cheat for seeing someone else when I'm still living with my wife?

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Question - (12 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2009)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I met a young lady a few years back. This lady really meant a lot to me. I told her that I was looking for someone who would be faithful, because my wife cheated on me. This young lady was really a nice girl and had been hurt herself. The only problem was I had not moved out of the house with my wife. We only had a living arrangement until i could move. I spend all the time I could with my lady because I loved her. I even transferred to another location on my job to make her happy. to me, she was the perfect woman until she decided to date someone else. She knew I loved her, but said she thought I was never going to get with her the right way. At the time I was still living with my wife. I understand my girl, but I can't accept what she did. She wants to get back together. The way I see it she is just like others that cheat. Am I wrong for looking at the situation this way even though I was still in the house with my wife when my girl decided to date someone.

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A female reader, Lina319 United States +, writes (13 May 2009):

Lina319 agony auntHow long were you dating this lady friend? Were you getting a divorce from your wife? or when you were living with her? How often did you see this lady? A little more info would help...

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