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writes:Hey. Thank you to the person who answered my last question. It helped me a lot, but I’m still struggling. I’m just wondering if anyone can help...I've been with my boyfriend 8 and half months. I REALLY don't want to lose him but I don’t know what I’m feeling. It’s like I’m going off him but I love him so much he just can’t leave me. So I’m not going off him. I’m thinking it’s me probably not wanting him to leave me so badly this has developed. But can anyone help? Has anyone had the same problems? If so how did you resolve it all? It’s really upsetting me. It’s getting in the way of my life badly. I’m not prepared to leave him. We're planning our whole life together and I just can’t deal with this feeling. Reply to this Question
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 I'm sorry but I don't understand what going off him means?
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Your still quite young. It's natural that your confused about "matters of the heart". Your taking your first steps into the screwed up world of love.Your putting undue pressure on yourself.Stop over thinking this, and just take each day as it comes. Things will soon even out.As far as planning your lives together, sure it's fun to fantasize with him, but your both young, so be prepared.Your both going to get older, your feelings for each other will eventually fade, and you'll both move on to different people and interests.Yes... it will hurt like HELL, but it's all part of the learning process.Both you and he will survive.Every person who has ever lived, or has yet to be born, has to go through just what your going through now.I wish I could nake it easier for you, but I can't.It's what we all call "LIFE".
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